Breakups hurt. Whether it ended peacefully or painfully, it leaves a void, confusion, and often… a question: Why did this happen? And more importantly, What now?heal and bounce back stronger after a breakup.
1. Check Your Venus and Moon
While friends may say "move on" or "time heals everything," astrology offers deeper guidance—showing you not just how to heal, but also why this breakup might’ve happened in the first place.
Let’s dive into the astrologically aligned ways to Placement
In astrology, Venus rules love and attraction, while the Moon governs emotions and how you process pain. After a breakup, take a look at:
Your Venus sign: It tells you what kind of love you crave, and where you may have been disappointed.
Your Moon sign: It shows how you deal with heartbreak—some signs (like Cancer or Pisces) may need emotional closure, while others (like Aquarius or Sagittarius) heal by detaching.
A personal astrology consultation can help you understand this better.
2. Reflect on Your 7th House of Relationships
The 7th house in your birth chart governs marriage, long-term relationships, and partnerships. If you've just had a breakup, it's a good time to:
Review the planets in your 7th house
Notice if any malefic planets (like Saturn or Rahu) are impacting this area
Track current transits that might have triggered challenges
For example, Saturn transiting the 7th house often brings karmic lessons in love and commitment.
3. Perform Breakup Healing Rituals Based on Your Sign
Each zodiac sign deals with pain differently. Here’s what can help you specifically according to your sign:
Aries: Take action. Hit the gym, start a new project, or go on a solo trip.
Taurus: Create a calm space. Decorate, cook, or indulge in self-care.
Gemini: Talk it out. Journal, join support groups, or start therapy.
Cancer: Allow yourself to cry and spend time near water for emotional healing.
Leo: Do things that boost your self-esteem—dress up, take selfies, go out.
Virgo: Analyze the lessons. Make lists, detox, and get organized.
Libra: Reconnect with beauty and harmony—art, music, or redecorating.
Scorpio: Dive deep. Meditate, seek transformation, or explore astrology.
Sagittarius: Travel. A road trip or spiritual retreat can do wonders.
Capricorn: Focus on career goals. Achieving something grounds you.
Aquarius: Join a cause or do something unconventional.
Pisces: Escape into creativity. Write, paint, or listen to soulful music.
4. Do a Cord-Cutting Ritual
Astrologically, energetic attachments can linger long after the breakup. A cord-cutting ritual helps release your emotional and spiritual ties.
You can do this during:
AWaning Moon phase (perfect for letting go)
ASaturn Hora (time ruled by Saturn for karmic release)
Light a candle, write a goodbye letter (you don’t have to send it), and say a small prayer to disconnect and reclaim your energy.
5. Wear Astrological Remedies for Heart Healing
You can also try wearing:
Rose Quartz: A universal love stone that heals the heart chakra
Moonstone: Brings emotional balance
Emerald or Diamond (if Venus is strong): For love and relationship attraction
Astrologers may also suggest specific gemstones or mantras based on your personal chart.
6. Do Pooja or Mantra Jap for Emotional Peace
Some powerful mantras and poojas to consider after a breakup include:
Maha Mrityunjaya Mantra – for inner healing and transformation
Venus Beej Mantra – to strengthen Venus and attract healthy love
Chandra Mantra – for emotional peace
If the breakup was especially traumatic, consider doing a Navgraha Shanti Pooja or Rahu-Ketu Pooja, especially if these planets are creating relationship challenges.
7. Let the Universe Redirect You
Sometimes, a breakup is the universe's way of making space for something better. Astrology teaches us that timing is everything.
Check your Dasha (planetary period) or ongoing transits:
Going through a Rahu or Ketu Dasha? Expect sudden changes and karmic endings.
AJupiter return? You're being spiritually redirected.
ASaturn transit? Tough love lessons, but long-term growth is coming.
FAQs – Astrology and Breakups
Q1. Can astrology explain why my relationship ended?
Yes. Breakups often align with difficult planetary periods or transits. An astrologer can help identify the karmic patterns and life lessons.
Q2. Can I get back with my ex through astrology?
Sometimes, yes—if it’s fated. But if the charts show incompatibility or karmic closure, it's better to focus on healing and moving forward.
Q3. Is there a pooja to heal from heartbreak?
Yes. Mangal Dosh Nivaran Pooja, Venus Shanti Pooja, or Navgraha Pooja are commonly done to remove relationship blockages.
Q4. How long does Venus Dasha last, and does it affect love life?
Venus Dasha lasts for 20 years and strongly impacts love, marriage, luxury, and emotions. Whether it’s favorable depends on your Venus placement.
Q5. Should I avoid new relationships after a breakup based on astrology?
It’s best to check your transit and Dasha periods. If you’re under a malefic influence, taking a break to focus on healing is wiser.
Final Thoughts
A breakup doesn’t just break your heart—it challenges your identity, your future plans, and your trust in love. But with astrology, you’re not navigating this storm alone. You have the stars, the planets, and your inner wisdom to guide you back to peace.
Need clarity or closure? Talk to our certified astrologers on Astroera. Your first chat is FREE.
Because healing isn’t just emotional—it’s cosmic too.
